Keokuk Internship: Background and Foreground

It’s often fun for me to look and see which type of ministries my gifts work best in. Keokuk is a fun place to explore those as well. My natural tendency is to work in the background. I’ll work with technology, shoot photography, and administrate events behind the scenes. Rarely do I have to be up front. The fun thing is that I don’t have a problem leading up front, it’s just not my first choice.

Church camp is really an area where I have to be up front. It takes the enthusiastic (and sometimes crazy) counselor to set the tone for the rest of the group. Vacation Bible School was an area where I did both the foreground and background leading.

This weekend is already starting to be another combination of the two. Yesterday, Cathie got back from vacation and we realized that she was scheduled to preach at the Methodist church on Saturday. Occasionally she’ll fill in and preach there at the Saturday night contemporary service. FCC in Keokuk (where I work) hasn’t had any open Sundays for me to preach this summer, so Cathie and I decided that the Methodist worship would be a good chance. I still haven’t started my sermon yet, but that’s what I’m going to do this afternoon and tonight (with luck). I also need to work on the powerpoint for Sunday’s worship service (background), the pastoral prayer and offertory sentences (foreground) and the high school sunday school prep (foreground). My Saturday morning’s going to be pretty busy; I can already tell.


Part of the busyness later this weekend is due to me taking some time to design a sweet powerpoint background this morning. I ended up putting in a Disciples chalice, as well as the shapes for the windows in the back of FCC Keokuk’s new doors at the back of the sanctuary. When I got to looking at them I decided that they looked like arms, so I put a dove in there too. I’m pretty proud of it, if you couldn’t tell. The picture above links to the full-sized version for the powerpoint background. If anyone needs a bigger size, let me know — it’s an easy thing to do and then e-mail.

Keokuk Internship: Information Overload

It’s sad how easy it is for me to overload myself. Today I took the day off of work and drove to St. Louis. The beginning of this week has been packed. On Monday I did two hospital visits. On Tuesday morning I saw a 101-year-old lady in the congregation who has a mind more intact than most college students I know. She was fun! Last night I went with Tom to the prison again. This week the prisoners didn’t have a lesson done before we got there because they’re just starting 1 and 2 Peter, so it didn’t require much from me.

So I’m finishing up my lunch break and my mind already hurts. I’m in a fantastic day of workshops on Adobe Photoshop. I’ve been a hobbyist Photoshop user for at least 5 years and this workshop is already teaching me. Almost everything they’re covering is pretty new. What’s especially nice is that it’s going to make my digital photography look even better. I realize that I’m not doing the greatest at updating the galleries section of the website. Hopefully when I get back to high-speed internet in the middle of August I can get some of the stuff up. OK … workshop’s starting!

Keokuk Internship: Week Review

Last Sunday I left the church and picked up Cathie Courtois and immediately drove up to the Christian Conference Center in Newton, IA. Cathie counseled for the high school camp in the cabin side and I counseled for the middle school camp in the rustic side. How rustic you may be wondering? We sleep on wooden platforms in the middle of the woods with tents over us. We make our breakfasts and dinners over open fires which we build.

Sometimes counselors can get stuck with kids who don’t like to work and then the meals and living situation really starts to get bad. Mine was awesome. My co-counselor was Melanie Van Weelden and I had 11 youth living in our village. When we told them what needed done they worked incredibly hard. What a treat!

The best part of the week had to be our village community. The guys were a hoot! During FOB (Flat on Back/Bed/Bunk/TakeYourPick) time they decided to make up different cheers and new verses to some of the songs we sang. They even made a verse to one of our favorites (“Flea-Fly”) where they substituted some of the words for the names of all in our tent. It was great!

The words part of the week was definitely the heat. Thursday was the worst. I still haven’t heard what the temperature and heat-index were, but it was bad. When I left the camp on Saturday at 12:30 it was 101 out with a heat index around 115 degrees.

Another highlight for the week is that the youth had a dance on Thursday night that lasted 2.5 hours. What’s even better is that they were dancing the entire time. I’ve never seen this successful of a Chi Rho dance. :) We (some of the counselors) also got glow sticks and bracelets and necklaces before we got to camp; let’s just say that the effect was cool with a darkened shelter house.

Friday night we also decided as a camp to sleep under the stars. We pulled all of our cots out onto the lawn by the shelter house and had the guys on one side and the girls on the other with the counselors down the middle. I’ve never done it before and I have to say: it’s nice! I stayed up until 2:45 talking with some of the other counselors. We then had to get up early (I think before 7am).

So it’s now Sunday afternoon and I’m exhausted. I drove some of the Keokuk youth back yesterday afternoon and arrived at 3:45 and had the last one gone by 4:45. After that I got some great pictures of the inside of the new church’s sanctuary. The evening was capped by a wonderful dinner with Tom and Kathy as well as Tom’s mother and two of their friends (Daryl and Marcia). Why is it so easy to find such wonderful people in this town?

I’m finishing up some other e-mails and then going to take a nap for the rest of the day and then do some reading. It’s hard catching up with e-mails when one has been gone for a week.

Servant Leadership Network: Humanity Actualized

Tonight’s ‘God-sighting’ was based on a story of a Bosnian muslim who was persecuted. To make a long story short (even though the long one that Johnny told was great), the man went through recovery and the last step was when he realized he’d been welcomed with a gift that he felt like an actual human. Johnny tied it in by thanking the participants for not only growing in friendship with each other, but really welcoming each other and helping each other see their self-worth. Tonight after all of the leadership labs, we went out and played, cooked and ate by a lake. One of the Eureka employees, Chuck, has a property bordering Lake Eureka and he volunteered his place for us to do our evening activities. :) The lake was a calm, relaxing place.

The group from the Great River Region led us in worship on the lakeside. They waited until it was dark and then had us sitting around sections of candles on the ground. It was a worship service built on simplicity, good music, and the environment we were in.

Another benefit of the weekend that I forgot to mention, was that Randy Kuss came down and spent time helping out and also promoting his God@Center retreats which he now does.

I haven’t seen Randy since last November at Triennium in Lexington, KY. At that event I didn’t get a chance to really see him much since I was running around like crazy getting background work done. Well, now it’s time for Chinese food with Bill and Michael. We started this tradition at ICYF in Atlanta — we couldn’t let it die here (actually, it’s a tradition here, before it was just a memory of something we did late at night at these events).

Keokuk Internship: Work-IN

Whenever I pull all-nighters, they knock me flat on my back. This one was especially that way since I’d deprived myself of sleep during my event at Eureka. Last night we arrived at the new church at 7:00 and started working. We raked dead grass off of a section so that the mower could go over it without getting clogged with all of the dead stuff. After that, Cathie and I did a fun demonstration of proper wood-work clearning. Let’s just say we had a good time getting into our roles. We all then cleaned all of the trim and wood we could find. The sanctuary — SO MUCH wood. That’s ok, though; it looks gorgeous! We then worked as teams and carried all of the pew seat cushions into the sanctuary to make it easier for the company to install them on Thursday.

We finished all of that by 10pm and took a break. Afterwards, we went upstairs into the middle school room and cleaned all of the rafters, swept the floor, and also installed ceiling tiles in the snack area. :) It looks cool! Before going to watch a movie to get to sleep at night, we also swept out the adult sunday school classrooms so carpet can be installed later this week (hopefully). Our progress was great and I hope that the adults can see it and that it hopefully makes their jobs a little easier. I ended up getting 3.5 hours of sleep last night. When I woke up, I wasn’t that tired though! So I went back to the Seiberts and showered. Kathy then made me french toast for breakfast. How lucky can a guy get?!? It’s a great to start that definitely lifted me off of my back.

Keokuk Internship: Exultant Exhaustion #2

This entry definitely deserves this title more than the other one did. While I thought I was at that point 10 days ago, I can now say I’ve gone beyond it. To begin with, I’ve gone the 5.5 hours of sleep for the last 40 hours. Surprisingly, I’m not nearly as tired as I probably should be. We had the work-in last night at the new church facility. The physical activity somehow gives me energy; that’s all I can come up with. I got 3.5 hours of sleep after we finished working and before we left. When I woke up, I was feeling good and took some of the kids home. Then I came back to the Seiberts’ house and showered and then Kathy made me french toast. I then went right back in and worked until 12:20 when I took a break for lunch.

What’s best is that I had some of my most productive moments of the summer during those four hours. We’ve been looking for some other stuff for me to do while I’m here, so I started some new things. One was to finish a website of some of the better pictures I took at the Servant Leadership Network event; you can see it at: http://aristotle.rel.tcu.edu/AdamFrieberg/Galleries/ServantLeadershipNetwork/index.aspx. Beyond the site uploading (talking someone with a high-speed connection through it), I also worked on a summary piece highlighting the event. I’m going to hopefully finish that tomorrow and get it sent out. One of the most exciting things looking back on that event is how good my picture-taking skills are becoming. I’m not only enjoying taking the pictures, but others are enjoying them as well! (Italy here I come!)

So I worked the rest of the afternoon on some branding stuff for the new church. I’m specifically thinking an incredibly user-friendly website aimed specifically at visitors. I’ve already designed some of the graphics and like the look. It’s basic, but looks professional. Hopefully there’ll be more to come from that later in the summer. Tomorrow I’m planning on reading through and learning the camp curriculum for the middle school church camp I’m counseling next week.

Well after dinner, I went back into the new church and worked for two hours with one of the high school youth group volunteers and a couple of the youth. We worked on painting the high school room (repainting some sections) and also laying the ceiling grid. It’s going to look good in the end!

Probably the best news of the night is my brother’s soccer results. The team he’s playing on this summer, the Des Moines Menace, played in the third round of a cup tonight. I’ve posted on the other games before, but tonight, they played in Atlanta. I got the phone call when I finished with the painting and my dad told me they were winning against the Atlanta team 5-1. They ended up winning it with that score and so on August 3rd they get to play the Kansas City Wizards. Yes, those Kansas City Wizards — the Major League Soccer team!!! The Atlanta round was already the furthest the Menace have made it, so this is just plain huge. I’m already planning on going. Who would have thought that a year after my brother finished high school he’d be playing against a professional team. This is just plain fun! OK, now it’s time for sleep (or a little reading beforehand).

Servant Leadership Network: Model Servants

‘ve now finished my long drive home (well, to Keokuk) from Eureka. What a weekend. The car ride luckily gave me plenty of time to reflect on it. Was I short on sleep? Definitely, but that was expected. Were there moments where I was wishing it would be over? Yes, but I’m blaming that on the lack of sleep. Did the event make enough of a change in the individual councils that God’s work will be done by more-willing servants? I’ve changed my mind from hopefully to definitely. Here are some examples of model service that I saw this weekend:

Last night, as we returned from picking up the leftover trash and materials from the games and meal we had before worship, we arrived at the Cerf Center and Wendi and Diane from the Great River group came up to us and asked if they could clean up the worship area for the worship service tomorrow. They asked!?! It was shocking. Even after we’d had an incredibly fulfilling yet tiring couple of days, even when most of the youth were hanging out and jamming to music in the lobby, even when the leaders of the event were mostly getting ready to crash, these two were wanting to help clean up. HOW COOL!!! Talk about showing by example. The entire event was about servant leadership and yet their actions caught me off-guard.

Another example is Terry Ewing. Terry went above and beyond his role as hosting college chaplain. He led a leadership lab. He handled most of the interaction with the university for us. He found a university employee who hosted us on his family’s lawn for dinner and let us do worship by the lake. Terry supervised the kayaks (a couple of which were his that he let us borrow) during the game time at the lake. Terry’s interests weren’t his first priority — he had to have had several other things he could have done, but instead chose to give and help where he could.

How about the worship team? The team that went to Johnny Wray’s worship lab last night planned our service for this morning. Were they content to do another standard worship without being creative? Nope; instead, they chose to trust their hearts and decided to take up an offering for the event. Even though none of the creators of the event had planned one, they decided that Week of Compassion was such a great cause that they needed to do what they could while they were here. Sure, they’re going to go and do more in their regions and congregations to support it, but at this event, they did what they could.

Servant leadership is one of the great challenges we face today. It’s existence isn’t the challenge; it’s absence is! Not only are good leaders hard to find, but good leaders who are willing to take an altruistic attitude and put others first are extremely difficult to find. This event showed me that it is possible to teach servant leadership; while not remaining simply a natural, innate characteristic present in only a select few, servant leadership is cultivated through demonstration. Our prayer can only be that those who became better servant leaders at this event will cause even more to imitate.

Servant Leadership Network: Stackability

Who thinks of this?!?: I love light! You can maneuver it and change how it shapes and illumines. This morning was awesome because I was able to use something learned from photography to make a really cool effect. In reality, I’ve used this before at Triennium and other events, but never on my own without a video mixer. Johnny Wray had a music video on a DVD he showed the group and we decided to show the words with it. Even though I don’t have a video mixer to capture multiple feeds and use them, I did remember a cool light effect — if you put words in white and the background as black, then the black portion can be stacked on top of another light source and it acts as a mask. Pretty much what happened is that I took two projectors (one with the video and the other with the words) and made the words go along with the video. It was a fun ‘eureka’ moment — I know, I just couldn’t resist. What other things are stackable? Interns?

Johnny Wray and Anthony from Kentucky?

In any case, I know that light is. What fun. How many images can I come up with? Is truth stackable? Are there multiple truths? OK, enough questioning … I’m going to take more pictures and enjoy this event. My next workshop I’m leading is this afternoon. I’m kind of anxious again. :)

Servant Leadership Network: Loosening Knots

Johnny Wray just gave another “God-sighting.” He was struck at how well the youth worked together during the group-building (cow — don’t ask, long story) games. One of the games they played was the classic “join hands in weird configurations and untangle yourselves without dropping hands” game. He tied the game and their effectiveness into how essential it is for servant leaders to be willing to work together for loosening some of the knots that plague the world: poverty, terror, evil.


A group working on coordination


Johnny Wray joining in energizers!

Earlier in the morning the new President of Eureka talked to them about different ways they can incorporate servant leadership as they go on – through high school, to college, and beyond. The Dean of Admissions, Brian Sajko (pronounced ‘psycho’), also invited them to not only check Eureka out, but also talk with them about any of the issues students are facing with making a transition to college. Both of them impressed me — they, along with Terry Ewing, are great assets for the school.


Eureka President Dr. David Arnold


Dean of Admission Brian Sajko

Today was also fun because several things got switched around. This event is so cool because it has a relaxed atmosphere. The leaders of the youth councils planned much of it, but each group is bringing content and programming to help. It’s a collaborative event and so flexibility reigns. Originally I was going to be doing one of my technology workshops tonight. This morning Johnny Wray had to do a conference call for Week of Compassion where he helped handle some of the aid going to those in Haiti, Cuba and the Florida Keys with the hurricane going through there now. Because he had the conference call, we switched my leadership lab to this morning and pushed his worship one back. :) It still went incredibly well. Now I need to find some time in the next week and write a bunch of it down and put it in easy-to-use guides (hopefully soon to be downloadable in PDF format).


Terry, Bill and Michael coordinating

Servant Leadership Network: Day 1

Whenever people ask about the future of our denomination I just wish they could spend an hour at events like this. There’s SO much potential here. Even though there are only five different groups, you can see each of them demonstrating unique leadership abilities. The Kansas group was especially that way; during the time where each group introduced themselves with skits, the Kansas group made a specific point of leading the cheering. They’re welcoming. They’re encouraging. I’m going to need to specifically watch and see how well they split up at meal times to include others.

Tonight Johnny Wray started by giving a short message. He’s the chaplain for the event and he’s giving us different examples of “God-sightings” throughout the weekend. Tonight, he lifted up one that was obvious. He told the story of a time where worship had left him needing more, how communion was an essential part that he missed. He closed it by lifting up the generosity of the youth here; they came and greeted him and welcomed him even though he’d only been briefly introduced. The youth also did group building games where they were forced, and eventually wanted, to meet and hang out with people from the other groups. By worship time there were few sitting in their own groups — they were all mixed!

What makes youth this way? Is it natural for these specific ones as leaders? If so, they’re already well along the way to becoming servant leaders. Is it an expectation they set or someone set for them before they even arrived? Is it simply the hope that they all embrace that they’ll grow from this event?